God girl communication

{O Lord, set a guard at my mouth. Keep watch over the door of my lips.}  - Psalm 141:3

"Being a God Girl means being aware of what your words and actions are saying about your God."

In my devotional, the last chapter was on "God Girl Communication." Not only did it talk about how to deal with enemies, but also boys, adults, and certain situations.

 

I've always been told to be nice to everyone; keep a smile on your face and don't let them see you cry. But, this book doesn't say to do these things to fool others. It teaches that your true personality should be honest, caring, and compassionate. You should show love to strangers, give encouragement, and always sport kindness (no matter who they are what they can/can't do for you).

•  Authority (this includes your parents!) - R-e-s-p-e-c-t is the key word. This isn't based on how you feel about the person making demands, but on their position of God-given authority in your life. It means you must always act out of love towards them and refrain from retaliation, mocking, and disputes.
• Boys - If anything, control your emotions. Don't be a negative Nancy and make an issue over every little thing that the opposite sex says. Also, approach them no differently than you would a girl. Communicate like a lady, not a girl searching for approval or compliments. Think about what you say before it comes out. Guys think COMPLETELY different than girls. Yes, we know how to play with guys emotions, whether it be with what we say or how we dress. Keep your words pure and don't let yourself fall into a sinful trap.
  
• Enemies - "If what you want to say isn't useful to build people up or to communicate your love for them, then you have to consider your motives." Be sure to avoid gossiping and being judgmental! God is the only one that has the right to judge others; after all, you are just as sinful as the next person. We ALL struggle, maybe not with the same sins, but we all have our weak points. Use others weaknesses as a point of communication - ask them how you can help them or just be a listening ear, a friend. Build them up, not yourself.
  
• Your peers - Don't just talk to be heard! When your with others, take the focus off yourself and shift it to them. Make sure you're giving them a turn to express their feelings. LISTEN and thoughtfully reply to what their saying. Allow God to work through you and their problems; use scripture and prayer to help them overcome an issue. But, be careful to not become the mediator between them and Christ. Remember that it can be easy to talk and get others opinions, but spending quality time with God is the only way to truly feel relieved and know that everything is under control.

Overall, the personality that you display can either turn your peers to or away from Christ. That is a HUGE responsibility for believers. Our mission while on earth is to "go out and make disciples of all men." So what are we waiting for?! Smile at people, look them in the eyes, say hello, give all that you can, and spread Christ's unconditional love through your words and actions.